Caring in America

With Podcast Host: Richard Wexler

Episode 109

Caring for the Underserved: A Conversation with St. Francis Home’s Bruce Slough

Today on Caring in America, Richard Wexler welcomes a special guest whose work speaks directly to one of the greatest challenges in aging: how to ensure everyone—regardless of income—has access to safe, dignified senior care.

For those who have followed Richard’s journey, you know the story. Twenty years ago, he and his wife were juggling two small children and four aging parents. They thought everyone was doing fine—until they weren’t.

A sudden series of crises swept them onto what Richard calls “the care train,” where they remained for 14 years until the last parent passed at 96. That experience led him to found Points of Life, launch this podcast, and ultimately create A Plan to Age—a nonprofit focused on helping families prepare before a health event forces their hand.

Today’s episode continues that mission with a conversation about accessibility, affordability, dignity, and community.


Meet Bruce Slough

Joining Richard is Bruce Slough, Executive Director of St. Francis Home—now operating as St. Francis Manchester—in Richmond, Virginia. A career IT professional, Bruce never expected to work in senior care. But ten years ago, drawn by a calling to give back, he “stumbled into” St. Francis Home and never left.

“If I’d known what I was getting into, I might not have done it,” Bruce laughs.
“But it’s been fulfilling beyond anything I could have imagined.”


A 52-Year Mission: Serving the Underserved

St. Francis Home was founded in 1973 by the Catholic Diocese of Richmond with one clear mission: to serve seniors who cannot afford traditional assisted living.

Their community is located in Manchester—an area now gentrifying but once considered “the rough side of town.” For decades, St. Francis has welcomed residents from the surrounding working-class neighborhoods, many of whom would have nowhere else to go.

Their belief is simple:

“All of God’s children deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, from cradle to grave.”

And that philosophy isn’t just words. It shapes everything they do:

  • Loving, dignified care

  • A family-like atmosphere

  • Licensed assisted living with no add-on fees

  • Life enrichment to combat isolation

  • Partnerships that keep costs affordable


A Community That Feels Like Family

Transitioning into senior living can be difficult. New residents often arrive feeling resentful, scared, or embarrassed. Many have been isolated for months or years while family members struggle to balance work, caregiving, and personal responsibilities.

But something special happens after they settle in.

“They see 80 or 90 people just like them,” Bruce explains. “And friendships form. Meals aren’t missed. Medications are taken. They start getting out, participating, laughing again.”

Bingo, outings to museums, baseball games, ice cream trips—St. Francis focuses intensely on community, engagement, and human connection.

Cover of podcast episode 109, highlighting a senior couple holding a model of a house. This episode talks about the reality many seniors face with rising costs- an increase in houselessness. St Francis' model is designed for all. Housing is not a luxury- it is a necessity.


How They Keep It Affordable

One of the most powerful parts of St. Francis’ mission is cost transparency and affordability.

Where the national average for assisted living hovers around $5,000 a month just for a room—with care fees on top—St. Francis charges:

  • $2,000–$4,000/month, all-inclusive

That includes:

  • Housing

  • Housekeeping

  • All meals

  • Medication management

  • Care services

  • Activities

  • Transportation/outings

No surprise billing. No tiered care charges. No hidden add-ons.

They have maintained this model for 52 years thanks to volunteers, donors, partners, and a deeply mission-driven staff.

“Nobody gets rich working at St. Francis,” Bruce says. “But if you resonate with our mission, you will feel fulfilled every day.”


What the Rooms Look Like

Are they the Hilton? No—and they’re not trying to be.

Residents live in modest, clean, safe rooms:

  • About 150 square feet

  • Some with private baths

  • Most with shared baths

  • All on a warm, close-knit campus

For many families, the cost difference and sense of community make shared bathrooms or modest spaces an easy adjustment.


A Growing Crisis—and a Model Worth Replicating

With 125 million Americans age 50+ and the oldest baby boomers turning 80 this January, the demand for affordable senior housing is exploding. Richard and Bruce agree: we desperately need more communities like St. Francis across the country.

Without them, we’ll continue to see what is already happening—seniors living in unsafe housing, doubling up with family who can’t support them, or even ending up on the street.

Affordable, dignified care is not a luxury. It’s a necessity.


Final Thoughts

Richard closes the episode with a simple message: We must figure out how we’re going to house all these people. The work Bruce and his team are doing is not just compassionate—it’s essential.

Because aging is inevitable. But aging safely and with dignity should be guaranteed.

Until next time—have an awesome day.

Bruce welcomes your call.

Phone: 804-231-1043
www.StFrancisRVA.org
Email: BSlough@StFrancisRVA.org

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Our country is entering a new chapter, one we have never seen before… over 100 million people are 50 years of age or older, and the need for care is going to be more and more prevalent. We are dreaming of a nation where aging and care are understood and become part of our normal conversations with family.

To make this a reality, we need your help!

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